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How women can advance even when the systems fall short
Despite incremental progress, women still face systemic barriers at work. The newest Women in the Workplace report confirms what many women already feel. Here are the trends that matter most—and how to navigate them with confidence and strategy.

Kelli Thompson
Dec 15, 20254 min read


Why I stopped asking ChatGPT for advice
Many leaders turn to AI for quick answers, but constant reliance on tools like ChatGPT can quietly erode our intuition and self-trust. After noticing this in myself and my clients, I paused my dependence on AI—and found clarity, creativity, and alignment again. Here’s how intentional AI use can strengthen your leadership instead of steering it.

Kelli Thompson
Dec 1, 20255 min read


A tool to boost your influence at work
As women rise into senior leadership, many find themselves as “lonely onlies” craving connection and support. Last week’s workshop revealed a growing truth: in an AI-driven world, real relationships matter more than ever. Here’s why intentional networks help women lead with confidence—and how to build your own Influence Map.

Kelli Thompson
Nov 17, 20253 min read


Should you build a “portfolio career?”
Years before it was trendy, I unknowingly built what Christina Wallace calls a Portfolio Life—teaching college while working full time in corporate. Today, more women are embracing portfolio careers to diversify income, purpose, and fulfillment. Here’s why relying on one role alone may limit your potential—and how to expand beyond your title.

Kelli Thompson
Nov 10, 20254 min read


I quit! (An important project update)
Sometimes burnout isn’t about doing too much—it’s about being slightly off course. In this reflection, I share why I chose to quit a major business initiative, how a lesson from Atomic Habits helped me recognize the misalignment, and why trusting your body and intuition may be the most strategic leadership decision you can make.

Kelli Thompson
Nov 4, 20257 min read


Are you in this 5%? I was shocked.
As you advance into leadership, it’s easy to inherit outdated systems—but you have more influence than you think to shape a healthier workplace. Drawing from a recent Deloitte report and my coaching experience, this article explores why women stay at organizations and the small, strategic changes leaders can advocate for to create growth, balance, and wellbeing at work.

Kelli Thompson
Oct 27, 20254 min read


Were you on mute?
“You're on mute.” If that wasn't the catchphrase of 2020, I don't know what was?! Given that we were all on video calls, wasn't it super frustrating to say something wise, only to figure out that no one could hear you?! Now all these years later, I always giggle a little bit today when I still forget to unmute myself or have to remind a fellow participant. Now that we are spending less time on video calls and spending more time in person, “are you on mute” has become a he

Kelli Thompson
Oct 20, 20253 min read


The simplest trick to improve your presentation skills
Watching yourself present can be uncomfortable—but it’s one of the fastest ways to improve your leadership presence. In this reflection, I share how a cringeworthy video early in my career transformed my speaking style, and why replaying your presentations is a powerful self-coaching tool to refine your message, body language, and impact.

Kelli Thompson
Oct 13, 20254 min read


Seeking opinions is ruining your confidence
A senior leader recently made a major career decision—without polling anyone for advice. By trusting her intuition instead of outsourcing her intelligence, she stepped into clarity, confidence, and alignment. This reflection explores why leaders underestimate themselves, how pedestal thinking erodes self-trust, and three powerful questions to guide decisions that truly belong to you.

Kelli Thompson
Oct 6, 20253 min read


My TEDx Talk Is Live! + a tool kit for you
If you remember way back to last November, I shared some of my TEDx talk journey, including the bummer of a moment when I realized that...

Kelli Thompson
Sep 29, 20252 min read


How to tell your leader "no"
Early in our careers, saying yes helps us grow—but as leaders advance, too many yeses lead to burnout, resentment, and misalignment. This article explores why learning to say no actually builds confidence, how overcommitment erodes leadership impact, and a simple framework to help you decline what doesn’t align so you can lead more strategically.

Kelli Thompson
Sep 15, 20254 min read


Why I flew to NYC last week - community
As leaders advance, both entrepreneurs and corporate women are craving the same thing: community. Without built-in peers, leadership can feel isolating—especially when you become the “only” in decision-making rooms. This article explores why intentional support networks matter more than ever, and practical ways women leaders can build real connection, empathy, and momentum at every stage of their career.

Kelli Thompson
Sep 8, 20254 min read


3 Ways To Improve Your Coaching Skills
Many leaders jump too quickly into problem-solving—only to solve the wrong problem. This article shares a real coaching scenario that reveals why effective leadership coaching starts with identifying the root issue, not offering advice. Learn three simple mindset shifts that help leaders coach with confidence, intuition, and impact while building trust and resilience on their teams.

Kelli Thompson
Sep 1, 20254 min read


Sneaky tasks keeping you overworked & overwhelmed
At a recent leadership workshop, I played a risky game: unpaid office workload bingo—and we had multiple winners. Research by Linda Babcock shows women are asked to take on significantly more unpaid, non-promotable work at work, fueling burnout and stalled advancement. This article explores why equalizing invisible labor matters—and what women leaders can do about it.

Kelli Thompson
Aug 25, 20253 min read


How to know the best time to delegate
Delegation isn’t just about handing off tasks—it’s a leadership skill rooted in clarity, authority, and grace. When leaders clearly define expectations, empower others with decision-making authority, and allow room for learning, teams grow more confident and capable. This article breaks down three essential practices to help you delegate effectively without micromanaging or burning out.

Kelli Thompson
Aug 18, 20253 min read


Overwhelmed? How to break the cycle
Back-to-school season often brings a surge of overwhelm—even for leaders without kids. When demands pile up, many high achievers slip into overfunctioning, doing more so others do less. This article explores how overfunctioning fuels burnout and erodes confidence, and offers practical questions leaders can ask to delegate sooner, break the overwhelm cycle, and lead more sustainably.

Kelli Thompson
Aug 11, 20253 min read


The identity crisis no one talks about after a promotion
Many leaders struggle to let go of being the “hero” who saves the day. But constantly jumping in to fix problems can hold both you and your team back. Learn how one executive shifted from expert to empowering coach—and how you can redefine your leadership by aligning your actions with the leader you want to become.

Kelli Thompson
Aug 4, 20253 min read


Confidence vs Cockiness: How to know the difference
A hiring manager once asked me, “Do you know the difference between confidence and cockiness?” That question transformed my career—and now helps shape how I coach women leaders who want to own the room without overstepping it. If you’ve ever second-guessed how you’re coming across, this blog is for you.

Kelli Thompson
Jul 21, 20253 min read


How to “re-brand” yourself as a more strategic leader
If you’ve ever been told you’re “not strategic enough” or too deep in the weeds, this blog is for you. Learn how to rebrand yourself as a confident, intentional leader—without losing what makes you great at your job.

Kelli Thompson
Jul 14, 20254 min read


Tools to *actually* be more strategic at work
First, Linkedin News featured my latest Fast Company article, Are You Too Reliable To Be Promotable? Give it a read and I would love to...

Kelli Thompson
Jul 7, 20256 min read


My favorite chatGPT prompts to help you lead, laugh or live easy
Feeling mid-year burnout? Celebrate Independence Day with a fresh spark of creativity, laughter, and insight. I’m sharing my favorite ChatGPT prompts—from the deeply reflective to the just-for-fun. Try them out, and tag me with your favorites!

Kelli Thompson
Jul 1, 20253 min read


Sneak Peek: Inspiration for my next book
Behind the scenes: I’m writing a new book! If you've ever felt stuck between being the go-to performer and becoming a true strategic leader, this one’s for you. Here’s the big idea—and how you can follow along on Substack as I shape it.

Kelli Thompson
Jun 23, 20254 min read


How “over-coaching” your employees hurts potential
You can’t work harder on someone’s development than they will. If you’re carrying the full weight of your team’s growth, it’s time to shift. Learn how to lead with empathy—without overfunctioning—and return career ownership to where it belongs.

Kelli Thompson
Jun 16, 20253 min read


How to design your next promotion
If you're waiting for a job posting to take your next career step—you might already be behind. Learn how to identify growth opportunities, think strategically, and position yourself for a role that doesn’t exist yet (but soon will).

Kelli Thompson
Jun 9, 20254 min read


4 reasons you aren't getting promoted
If you’ve ever wondered “Why am I not advancing when I’m doing everything right?”—you’re not alone. In this sneak peek of my upcoming book, I reveal four common traps that keep smart, hardworking women stuck in roles they’ve outgrown—and how to get unstuck.

Kelli Thompson
Jun 2, 20256 min read


Why "just rest" isn't the best for burnout
Feeling burned out as a high-achieving woman leader? Discover the critical difference between rest and recovery—and how to reclaim your energy, clarity, and confidence this summer.

Kelli Thompson
May 26, 20254 min read


How to manage up at work
Struggling with a boss who constantly puts out fires but never invests in your growth? Learn how to manage up with clarity, compassion, and curiosity—and take back control of your career.

Kelli Thompson
May 19, 20253 min read


Are you too loyal to get promoted?
Are your commitments helping or holding you back? Explore how high-performing women leaders can evaluate when loyalty to a boss, team, or company turns into self-sabotage — and how to lead with both heart and clarity.

Kelli Thompson
May 12, 20254 min read


Try My Confidence Pep Talk
Struggling with anxiety, imposter syndrome, or procrastination? You're not alone. In this honest post, I reveal how avoidance held me back—and the 3 mindset shifts that helped me get back on track. Learn how to overcome self-doubt, stop catastrophizing, and take confident action on the big projects that matter.

Kelli Thompson
May 5, 20253 min read


4 tips for when you're uncertain and not in control
Many companies are cutting back on women's leadership programs—and it's impacting more than just budgets. In this post, I share how the shift has affected my business and how I'm navigating the messy, uncertain space of change. If you’re in a career transition or feeling stuck, you’re not alone. Here’s how to move forward with clarity and confidence.

Kelli Thompson
Apr 28, 20255 min read


4 ways to rebrand yourself from an achiever to a leader at work
Discover 4 strategies to rebrand yourself from a high achiever to a recognized leader at work. Learn how to shift perceptions, advocate for yourself, and build lasting influence.

Kelli Thompson
Apr 22, 20254 min read


Expert strategies for transitioning into a new leadership role
Newly promoted? Learn how to avoid 4 common traps that keep managers stuck as doers instead of emerging as influential leaders. Shift from expert to empowered leader today.

Kelli Thompson
Apr 14, 20252 min read


How to communicate your value at work
Struggling to advocate for yourself at work? Learn why it’s critical to own your accomplishments and discover practical strategies to stop selling yourself short and boost your career.

Kelli Thompson
Apr 7, 20254 min read


Are you in a status quo spiral?
Feeling stuck in your career or life? Learn how to break free from the Status Quo Spiral, overcome fear-driven decisions, and create new opportunities with flexible, empowering strategies.

Kelli Thompson
Mar 31, 20255 min read


The most underrated confidence coaching tool
Feeling overwhelmed in a new leadership role? Discover how naming your emotions can help you reclaim confidence, set boundaries, and lead with clarity instead of anxiety.

Kelli Thompson
Mar 17, 20254 min read


Try this leadership energy audit
Is your expertise keeping you stuck? Learn how conducting a leadership energy audit can help you shift from high achiever to influential leader—and unlock your next level of impact.

Kelli Thompson
Mar 10, 20253 min read


6 leadership lessons from 6 years in business
Six years in business, countless lessons learned. Discover six powerful leadership and career lessons from an entrepreneur’s journey—and how you can apply them to your own path.

Kelli Thompson
Mar 3, 20254 min read


Why being “easygoing” can backfire
As you conform to what you believe others want from you, you cancel out your unique ideas, your need for support, and even the perception you desire to advance.

Kelli Thompson
Feb 24, 20253 min read


How to know if you're the bottleneck
Being too good of an expert keeps you, and the organization, in an advancement trap. You can't grow because people need you too much.

Kelli Thompson
Feb 17, 20254 min read


Are you a hidden gem?
Hard work alone isn't enough—visibility, influence, and relationships matter just as much. Trusted Impact Makers build relationships, take on high-profile projects, and ensure their contributions are recognized.

Kelli Thompson
Feb 10, 20254 min read


Feeling Advancement Anxiety
You can advance while also feeling fear. You can interview while also feeling nervous. You can take the next step while also feeling worried.

Kelli Thompson
Feb 3, 20254 min read


Are you stuck in an advancement trap?
This spiral of doubt is an advancement trap that keeps us in our roles for far too long and not fully advancing to our full potential.

Kelli Thompson
Jan 28, 20254 min read


Are you stuck in the advancement trap?
We don't change until the discomfort of our current situation outweighs the fear of the unknown.

Kelli Thompson
Jan 27, 20254 min read
How to build a pipeline of women leaders
Myth: The biggest barrier to women’s advancement is the ‘glass ceiling.’
Reality: The ‘broken rung’ is the greatest obstacle on the path to senior leadership.

Kelli Thompson
Jan 21, 20252 min read


How to use ChatGPT to inspire your year ahead
We don't need more resolutions. We need intentions that anchor us through change. For 2024, my word is courage—not to take risks, but to endure criticism in service of meaningful impact.

Kelli Thompson
Jan 6, 20254 min read


Ted Talk Reflections Part 3: Deliver high-stakes presentations with confidence
I was putting so much pressure on myself to nail my talk on my first try when SO MANY speakers have a slip up that is edited out.

Kelli Thompson
Dec 17, 20245 min read


Ted Talk Reflections Part 2: Deliver A Compelling Message
As it became clear that my Tedx Talk would be about what I call the “pedestal problem," I had to figure out how to tell the compelling story

Kelli Thompson
Dec 16, 20246 min read
Ted Talk Reflections Part 1: Finding Your Big Idea
Why do we we put others on a pedestal and assume they are smarter than us, and therefore, we silence our ideas?

Kelli Thompson
Dec 9, 20247 min read


How to present with confidence
People value connection over perfection. Nervous about presenting? Shift your focus from your fear to your audience: What do they need to know—and how do you want them to feel?

Kelli Thompson
Nov 18, 20242 min read


A different approach to work/life balance
Sometimes we say yes to everything and then try to find balance—instead of finding balance by not saying yes to everything.

Kelli Thompson
Nov 11, 20243 min read
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